My husband and I were talking about Thanksgiving and realized this will be the first year we cannot take my Mom out of the nursing home.  She is dead weight, and with dementia thrown into legs that no longer work it is simply unsafe to try to transport her. We are not equipped with a handicapped bathroom and most restaurants are not either.  Besides, if she did have to use the washroom I cannot change her by myself as she will fall down suddenly so that would not work in a public place (if my Husband had to come help). We also don’t have a lift on our van.

It is a sad realization.  We will spend our holidays at the nursing home and visit with her for a couple hours.  

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